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Magazine of The Compassionate Friends

Winter - 2004/2005

Published Quarterly
$20 per year

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The Compassionate Friends, Inc.
P.O. Box 3696
Oak Brook IL 60522-3696
 Fax: 630 990-0246

Issues: Autumn 2005 | Summer 2005 | Spring 2005 | Winter 2004/2005 | Autumn 2004 | Summer 04 | Spring 04 | Winter 03/04 | Fall 03 | Summer 03 |  

 

We Need Not Walk Alone®

CONTENTS Winter 2004/2005

Features

Let the World Know By R.R. Lawrence, Linda K. Lawrence and Greta Howard
I had no energy.  I was either always sleeping or never sleeping.  I had no desire to see people or to go anywhere.  I began to notice things and feel things that I didn't know how to deal with...

We Can Never Return to Pleasantville By Bill Sowers
We shed sparkling crystaline tears reflecting a pain that springs from an ocean of courage that kept us going through days, months and years of treatments, transplants, and tragedy.  Pride for our children, all of our children, glows deeply within us like the magenta colors of the sky in a setting sun.

Making a Difference: Racing for Hope
Lionel Chaiken knows alot about brain tumors.  Not because he's a world-reknowned surgeon, or even an esteemed scientist who has devoted his life to research.  Lionel's commitment has a more heart-wrenching motivation - his daughter, Pamela Sue, who died from a primary brain tumor.

"SonShine" and Time by David Feaga
I know the crack will never heal, but hopefully over time the "SonShine" will overtake the rain and allow the heart and leather to become one so our hearts can beat strongly again.

Riding the Beast By John Harris
In grieving the loss of our child, we ride a wild, screaming beast, we are forced to mount and ride until the day we reach the end of our own lives.

Letters from a Place of Healing and Peace

Dear Family and Friends By Mary and Mark Westra
Just after the first Christmas without Peter and before the first birthday after his death, his twenty-fifth, I felt compelled to reach out to family and to try to tell them again explicity how they could help us in keeping his memory alive.

Possibilities By Rosemari Clogher
With possibilities there are no deadlines - no voice of doom to shout our lack of effort and accomplishment.  Possibilities can be very simple with few demands but with amazing results and satisfaction.

Lighting the Way: 28th National TCF Conference in Boston MA

Healing in Hidden Places
Aurora on a Cold Winter's Night By Marianne Lohrman
When I worry about forgetting Jim over the passage of time, I recall the auroara.  It lighted one night briefly, yet after a year I still remember it vividly, I may forget some of the details of Jim's life, but I will never forget the essence of his humanity and spirit.  He was and will always remain a light in my life.

Departments

From the Exec's Desk: ...By Pat Loder 

TCF Patrons

Foundation Donors

Friends, Caring and Sharing
TCF's in-house newsletter for chapter leaders and steering committee members is incorporated here. Many items will be of interest to both membership and friends of the organization.

For Brothers & Sisters
For My Sister, Valinda By Valisha Watchman
I have heard so many times that when someone dies they are not really gone because their memory lives on in loved ones.  This statement has become true.  I see this in my life everyday.   My sister lives in me.  She lives in my children. She lives in everyone she touched.

Ask Dr. Paulson

Left Behind...Siblings in Grief By Mitch Carmody
Where do I fit in this great puzzle of grief?  What part do I play in the healing of a family's pain?

Book Review
When Winter Follows Spring: Surviving the Death of an Adult Child By Dorothy Ferguson..Reviewed by Joy Johnson

Poetry

Dear Janell By Elizabeth Allen

TIME By Robyn Church Wolf

 

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